Archived August, 2011

When You’re Going Somewhere … Are You Running?

Monday, August 29th, 2011

 

I-Was-RunningAfter Forrest explained how he could run like the wind blows, he then proclaimed, “From that day on, if I was going somewhere … I was running!”

 

Forrest literally meant he liked to run and when he needed to go from point A to point B – he would run.

 

But figuratively, Forrest’s running meant something much deeper.

 

Forrest’s running was a metaphor for the way he thought, the way he got things done, and for the way he interacted with others.

 

When Forrest was learning to walk with braces, he did it with concentration.

When Forrest was befriending Jenny, he did it with playfulness.

When Forrest played football, he did it with daring.

When Forrest graduated from college, he did it with spirit.

When Forrest served in the Army, he did it with valor.

When Forrest played ping-pong, he did it with reckless abandon.

When Forrest bought a shrimp boat, he did it with fearlessness.

When Forrest was struggling to learn the shrimpin’ business, he did it undaunted.

When Forrest succeeded wildly as a shrimperman, he did it with modestly.

When Forrest returned home to his dying mother, he did it with seriousness.

When Forrest mowed the lawn, he did it with heart.

When Forrest welcomed Jenny home, he did it with forgiveness.

When Forrest met Little Forrest, he did it with joy.

When Forrest married Jenny, he did it with love.

When Forrest buried Jenny, he did it with strength.

When Forrest put Little Forrest on the bus, he did it with satisfaction.

 

It occurs to me that Forrest kept his promise and lived his life from that day on … by always running.

 

Do you know that somewhere that you’re supposed be going?

Are you running to get there?

What are you waiting for?

 

Next Blog Title:  Do You Ever Dream About Who You’re Going To Be?

Next Blog Date:  September 1, 2011

 

Steve Weber is a Forrest Gump tribute artist, speaker, event maker, blogger, and aspiring author. He uses the simple, yet powerful, truths of Forrest Gump to turn meetings into events. You can learn more at SpeakingGump.com.

 

 

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It’s Not Bragging If It’s True

Thursday, August 25th, 2011

 

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"Now you wouldn't believe me if I told you ... but I could run like the wind blows"

 

When Forrest was sitting on the bench telling the woman his memories of childhood, his story reaches a moment when he reveals his special ability to run.

 

The bad boys were throwing rocks at Forrest. He was in the midst of being chased down by speeding bicycles. Just when it looked like they were going to catch him, Forrest puts on an extra burst of speed and his leg braces break away and fly off his legs. Forrest leaves his foes standing in the dust.

 

Forrest says to the woman, “Now you wouldn’t believe it if I told you, but I could run like the wind blows.”

 

Forrest said it with complete confidence.

Forrest said it with pure pride.

Forrest said it matter-of-factly.

What Forrest said was true.

 

Here is the reality … it’s not bragging if it’s true.

 

What can you say about yourself with complete confidence?

What can you say about yourself with pure pride?

What special skills do you have … that you can tells others matter-of-factly?

 

Never forget … it’s not bragging if it’s true.

 

 

Next Blog Title:  When You’re Going Somewhere … Are You Running?

Next Blog Date:  August 29, 2011

 

Steve Weber is a Forrest Gump tribute artist, speaker, event maker, blogger, and aspiring author. He uses the simple, yet powerful, truths of Forrest Gump to turn meetings into events. You can learn more at SpeakingGump.com. 

 

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Six Gump Ways to Overcome Fear

Tuesday, August 23rd, 2011

 

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Jenny asked Forrest if he was scared in Vietnam

 

At the end of the movie Forrest Gump, Jenny is sick in bed, dying, and she asks, “Hey, Forrest, were you scared in Vietnam?” Without stopping to think, Forrest says, “Yes …” But then with a moment’s reflection, he adds, “ … Well, I, I don’t know?”

 

It’s interesting that his initial, candid reaction was “Yes.”

 

But then with some thought, he adds, “I don’t know?”

 

I think most of us are initially fearful of many things that happen in our lives.

 

A new job.

A new relationship.

A new assignment at work.

A new child.

Paying next month’s mortgage.

Making a phone call that could change your life.

Writing the new proposal or blog.

 

The reality is that most new things are scary.

 

So why do some people charge fearlessly into new things?

Why do others remain paralyzed by fear … and fail to act?

 

Take a moment to think (and potentially react) like Forrest did.

 

Is it possible your instant reaction of, “YES, I’m scared!” could turn into “I don’t know?”why should I be scared?

 

Here are six Gump ways to overcome your fears.

 

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Lackadaisical Isn’t Good Enough

Thursday, August 18th, 2011
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Bubba assembled his weapon lackadaisically as his mind was on shrimpin'

 

Lackadaisical is defined as without interest, vigor, or determination. Lackadaisical is lazy, listless, and lethargic.

 

When Forrest Gump was in basic training for the U.S. Army, he was fully present and engaged when learning to assemble and disassemble his weapon. Bubba, on the other hand, was dreaming of catching shrimp and becoming a shrimp boat captain – he was assembling his weapon in a lackadaisical manner. He didn’t perform his duty with vigor – his interest was elsewhere. His mind, his actions, and even his communication lacked urgency and determination.

 

In the summer of 2011, lackadaisical is no longer good enough.

In today’s economic climate, lackadaisical will not get you a new job.

In the business of serving others, lackadaisical will get you fired.

In our world of instantaneous communication, lackadaisical will leave you talking to yourself.

 

Here are three ideas to help you fight off the lackadaisical, lackluster blues.

 

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Will You Be Ready When the Tide Turns?

Monday, August 15th, 2011

 

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When the tide turned, Forrest and Lt. Dan caught lots of shrimp!

 

The expression tide turns literally refers to the moment that the ocean waves change from incoming to outgoing (or vice versa). On average, the tidal waves turn four times daily with two high tides and two low tides. It’s precisely predictable.

 

Metaphorically, the tide turns when a complete reversal of circumstances occurs. In the movie Forrest Gump, the tide turned for Forrest after the hurricane destroyed all of the other shrimp boats. Forrest’s boat was the only one left standing in the water – and “after that, shrimpin’ was easy.” Prior to the hurricane, Forrest and Lt. Dan couldn’t catch shrimp – after the hurricane, the shrimp nets were full and bursting.

 

In our current economic circumstances, there has been business uncertainty since 2007. It started with the housing bust and banking/financial meltdown. Business and consumer confidence have been tepid at best ever since – almost four full years!

 

But sooner or later, the tide will turn. There are trillions of cash dollars waiting on the sidelines. Businesses have trimmed waste and have been operating leanly for several years. Employees have been working with cautiousness ever since. Anxiety has become the ‘new norm’. Positivity and possibilities will break out across the business spectrum, just as it’s already started in certain high-tech segments such as social media. A new wave is coming.

 

And unless you believe that America’s best days are forever over – a new wave coming is precisely predicable.

 

But when?

 

That is unknown. My guess is that some psychological event will trigger this new wave. That event will be significant.

 

So, in the meantime, I keep asking myself how I can be ready when it happens. I can feel it coming. The tide will turn.

 

So like Forrest, I keep working the nets and remaining focused on my goals.

 

What are you doing to prepare yourself for the next wave of opportunity?

What opportunity are you uniquely positioned to ride when the wave hits?

Will you be ready when the tide turns?

 

Next Blog Title:  Lackadaisical isn’t good enough

Next Blog Date:  August 18, 2011

 

Steve Weber is a Forrest Gump tribute artist, speaker, event maker, blogger, and aspiring author. He uses the simple, yet powerful, truths of Forrest Gump to turn meetings into events. You can learn more at SpeakingGump.com.

 

  

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What Message Are You Sending With Your Eyes?

Thursday, August 11th, 2011

 

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Do you know that your eyes are constantly talking and sending messages? What are your eyes saying? What message are your eyes sending?

 

In the movie Forrest Gump, there is a scene in Washington, D.C., when Forrest is saying goodbye to Jenny. Jenny and her hippie boyfriend Wesley are about to board the bus back to Berkeley.

 

As Jenny boards the bus, Forrest’s eyes say, “Love”!

 

A second later, Wesley boards the bus and Forrest’s eyes say, “Hit the road, Mister!” It’s a classic case of the old evil eye.

 

A few years ago I filmed a Volkswagen commercial. The premise of the commercial has Forrest, not running, but driving across the country. The closing scene shows Forrest driving back into town for a hero’s welcome. There are thousands of people cheering and awaiting his triumphant return. The director wanted me to smile, be excited, be happy. I told him it wasn’t in Forrest’s nature to give a big toothy grin or a fist pump. He then directed me to simply, “Smile with your eyes!”

 

In that moment, I came to realize that my eyes are constantly speaking to others. I can say whatever I want simply with my eyes. My eyes send messages.

 

Are your eyes mostly smiling?

Are your eyes sending love?

Or do you frequently give the evil eye?

 

 

Next Blog Title:  Will You Be Ready When the Tide Turns?

Next Blog Date:  August 11, 2011

 

Steve Weber is a Forrest Gump tribute artist, speaker, event maker, blogger, and aspiring author. He uses the simple, yet powerful, truths of Forrest Gump to turn meetings into events. You can learn more at SpeakingGump.com.

 

 

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Learn HOW to Function with Gumption!

Monday, August 8th, 2011

 

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Last week, I introduced my new three-pronged approach to Gumption and the phrase “Got Gumption? Get Gumption? Learn to Function with Gumption!”.

 

I also asked the grammatically challenged question, “Do you want to learn to?”

 

That question is a combination of the following:

  • Do you Got Gumption?
  • (Do you) want to Get Gumption?
  • (Are you willing to) learn to Function with Gumption?

 

Do you Got Gumption sets the stage and explains what Gumption is – three principles.

 

Want to Get Gumption asks if you’re willing to go there. You decide and get to make your choice.

 

Learn to Function with Gumption is the HOW after you understand what Gumption is and after you’ve chosen to let Gumption be your way of being … your way of living.

 

So now … are you ready to learn HOW to Function with Gumption?

 

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Got Gumption? Get Gumption! Learn to Function with Gumption!

Thursday, August 4th, 2011

 

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Attention, class! Listen up. First, I have one simple question for you all …

 

Do you want to learn to ?

 

How about three more questions …

 

Do you Got Gumption?

 

Want to Get Gumption?

 

Learn to Function With Gumption?

 

Please scroll down for your answers

 

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Introducing Gumption 2.0

Monday, August 1st, 2011

 

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Today, I’m introducing the new and streamlined explanation of Gumption. I’ll call it Real Life Gumption or Gumption 2.0.

 

Real Life Gumption consists of only three principles:

 

Principle #1: Mindset: The way a person with Gumption thinks.

Principle #2: Moxie: The way a person with Gumption gets things done.

Principle #3: Graciousness: The way a person with Gumption interacts with others.

 

This is an exciting breakthrough in my thought leadership platform. I want to acknowledge speaking coach Jane Atkinson for inspiring me to evolve (and simplify) my thinking.

 

Here is a brief summary of the original Gumption (Gumption 1.0 or Movie Gumption) and some background into my thinking about this change.

 

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