Archived July, 2011

Front Porch Thoughts – Summer 2011

Thursday, July 28th, 2011

Steve's-Front-Porch-Thoughts 

 

In the last post, I defined front porch thoughts as quiet and reflective thoughts. They are thoughts focused on the big picture, the meaning of life, and how life’s thousands of details fit into place like pieces of a jigsaw puzzle.”

 

And during the last twenty months of regular blogging, I occasionally would deviate from my regular themes of Gumption, Personal Responsibility, and Life Lessons from the movie Forrest Gump and write something specific about my own life’s journey. Sometimes they’ve taken the form of goals for the coming year and sometimes they’ve been an update on a specific aspect of my life. They are all listed as a group under the Steve’s Journey category.

 

Today, I’m introducing a new format. Consider it a subcategory of Steve’s Journey. It will simply be called Front Porch Thoughts and will be accompanied by a specific date or time-frame reference. Front porch thoughts will be an opinion, an update on my life, or an update on my business philosophy – sometimes it will be all three. Sometimes there will be answers … sometimes there might only be questions.

 

Sound good?

 

Here are eleven front porch thoughts as I sit and ponder during the summer of 2011.

 

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Front Porch Thoughts

Monday, July 25th, 2011

 

Front-Porch-Thoughts 

 

In my previous post I wrote, “It sure is safer if you simply stay seated on the front porch. But, then think about all the living you’d miss.”  This was a direct reference to Forrest Gump’s run across America. The run started when Forrest (who was deep in thought on the front porch), tired of sitting, stood up, and simply decided to go for a little run.

 

In that single moment, everything changed.

 

Front porch thoughts are quiet and reflective thoughts. They are thoughts focused on the big picture, the meaning of life, and how life’s thousands of details fit into place like pieces of a jigsaw puzzle.

 

Just before he started to run, Forrest was seated on the front porch deep in thought. He probably felt some despair over Jenny leaving him again. He might have been feeling sorry for himself. He no doubt was wondering, what was the purpose of his life?

 

From those front porch thoughts, Forrest made a single decision that changed everything. He stood up and started running. The run started to energize him. The run gave him a new purpose. The action of running offered a new perspective that eventually helped him put the past behind him.

 

Action is what ultimately makes things change. But the front porch thoughts are where the plan for action originates.

 

What are your front porch thoughts telling you what to do with your life?

Are you willing to follow your front porch thoughts and start running toward your goals?

Or, are you going to stand up and walk back into the safety and mediocrity of your house and television show?

 

Next Blog Title:  Steve’s Front Porch Thoughts – Summer 2011

Next Blog Date:  July 28, 2011

 

Steve Weber is a Forrest Gump tribute artist, speaker, event maker, blogger, and aspiring author. He uses the simple, yet powerful, truths of Forrest Gump to turn meetings into events. You can learn more at SpeakingGump.com.

 

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Life is Like a Run Across America … Four Times!

Thursday, July 21st, 2011
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Sometimes the view is so beautiful you forget that you’re running

 

We all remember when Forrest Gump ran across America four times. It took him “3 years, 2 months, 14 days, and 16 hours … (He) just felt like running.”

 

And …

… when Forrest was tired – he slept!

… when he was hungry – he ate!

… when he had to go … you know – he went!

 

Life may be like a box of chocolates … but it’s also like a long run.

 

 

Sometimes you get stopped and you decide to get started.

Sometimes you get started and then find it easy to just keep on going.

 

Sometimes you are headed downhill and the going is easy.

Sometimes you head straight uphill and the going gets tough.

 

Sometimes you reach a crossroads and you must choose a new direction.

Sometimes you reach a dead end and the only option is to turn back.

 

Sometimes your view is so beautiful you forget that you’re running.

Sometimes you almost get run over and mud gets splashed in your face.

           

Sometimes you find new friends who can’t wait to follow.

Sometimes you find yourself alone in the middle of nowhere.

 

Sometimes you find company and give those people hope.

Sometimes you feel like you’re running on empty.

 

Sometimes you decide to do things for no particular reason.

Sometimes you step in the middle of a big pile of it.

 

Sometimes you just think … a lot … about those that you love.

Sometimes you realize that you need to put the past behind you.

 

Sometimes you find yourself running against the wind.

Sometimes you get so tired you stop and simply go home.

 

 

It sure is safer if you simply stay seated on the front porch. But then, think about all the living you’d miss. Run, Forrest, Run!

 

Are you running and living life fully?

Or are you seated safely on the front porch?

 

 

 

Next Blog Title:  Front Porch Thoughts

Next Blog Date:  July 25, 2011

 

Steve Weber is a Forrest Gump tribute artist, speaker, event maker, blogger, and aspiring author. He uses the simple, yet powerful, truths of Forrest Gump to turn meetings into events. You can learn more at SpeakingGump.com.

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Gumption and Mindset

Monday, July 18th, 2011

 

Forrest-Gump-Mindset

Forrest Gump had positivity at the core of his thinking.

 

Mindset is the way you regularly think.

 

Mindset is your overall attitude towards living.

Mindset is the intentions you take to the world.

Mindset is the mood you convey to others.

Mindset is the disposition you take in controlling your own destiny.

Mindset is your inclination to see things as either possible or impossible.

Mindset is your tendency to see things in their simplest truths.

 

People with Gumption have a mindset that includes three key characteristics: positivity; possibility; and simplicity.

 

Today we’ll examine the three traits of a Gumption Mindset in more detail.

 

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Gumption and Moxie

Thursday, July 14th, 2011

 

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"The Moxie brand is owned by Cornucopia Beverages of Bedford, NH. Cornucopia is a subsidiary of Coca-Cola Bottling Company of Northern New England, which is a subsidiary of Kirin Brewery Co."

Moxie originated around 1876 as a patent medicine called “Moxie Nerve Food” by Dr. Augustin Thompson of Union, Maine. A few years later, soda water was added and the name was changed to “Beverage Moxie Nerve Food.” It was originally marketed as “a delicious blend of bitter and sweet, a drink to satisfy everyone’s taste.” It was promoted as an energy drink, much like Red Bull was a hundred years later.

 

Through extensive advertising for this soda product in the early 1900s, the newly coined term moxie became part of the American lexicon with the meaning courage, daring, and energy as in ‘the guy’s got moxie!’ The advertising’s implication was that you will have more nerve and courage if you drink the product. Today, the term moxie also means: skill, knowhow, pep, vigor, and determination.

 

Moxie the drink declined in popularity in the 1930s when the company cut back its advertising campaign – while Coca-Cola was increasing theirs. Today, Moxie is still sold but is considered mostly a regional brand of New England and Pennsylvania. A Moxie Museum exists in Union, Maine, to this day.

 

While the term moxie isn’t as popular in American business usage as its cousins determination, courage, or initiative, I believe moxie perfectly describes the way a person with Gumption gets things done.

 

So, what do I mean by getting things done?

 

I’m referring to the ‘production’ one has in their job or business. Producing could be a physical product, a service, or some type of intellectual exchange.

 

Maybe getting things done is manufacturing a physical object like a car, kitchen countertop, or a computer screen – but done in the tradition of an old-time craftsman.

 

Maybe getting things done is creating a new website, writing a blog or magazine article – while being done in the tradition of a modern-day artist.

 

Or, maybe getting things done is giving a lecture at a university, consulting with a business owner, or teaching a child how to tie a shoelace – all done in the traditions of a committed educator, business coach, or loving parent.

 

Getting things done is as simple as creating, making, or producing something of value for others – no matter if the compensation is monetary or simple self-satisfaction.

 

The moxie spirit drives a person with Gumption to get things done!

People with Gumption get things done with moxie determination!

Moxie courage gets things done now!

 

Have you got moxie?

Does the world need more people with moxie?

Is moxie ripe for a comeback?

 

 

Next Blog Title:  Gumption and Mindset 

Next Blog Date:  July 18, 2011

 

Steve Weber is a Forrest Gump tribute artist, speaker, event maker, blogger, and aspiring author. He uses the simple, yet powerful, truths of Forrest Gump to turn meetings into events. You can learn more at SpeakingGump.com.

 

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Gumption and Graciousness

Monday, July 11th, 2011
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Being gracious was a way of life for Forrest Gump

 

When you think of graciousness or the act of being gracious, scenes of royalty, sophistication, and/or good manners might well come to mind. Well, Gumption and graciousness are not at all concerned with royalty and sophistication, but Gumption and graciousness have everything to do with good manners. Specifically, good manners in how you interact with others.

 

Graciousness is defined as pleasantly kind, benevolent, and courteous. A benevolent person freely expresses goodwill and kindly feelings while desiring to help others.

 

Forrest Gump was clearly a gracious man by that definition. Forrest was courteous, kindly, and he freely expressed his goodwill and desire to help others.

 

Today, we live in a world where royalty and sophistication have predominately given way to the self-made and casualness – most would agree that this is a long-term change for the better. During the last few decades, I sense that good manners have become passé, and rudeness is too often considered normal … or at least acceptable and/or routinely tolerated. I would argue that this change hasn’t helped our world.

 

A few years ago I came face to face with my own ugly way I thinking. I believed others should understand me and know what I’m thinking. I wasn’t taking full responsibility for my communication and my interactions with others. The result was some ungracious behavior on my part. While I wasn’t 100% across-the-board-rude, there was a 10 or 20% behavior on my part that was based on a feeling of entitlement. That entitlement thinking produced smirks, condescending remarks, gossip, and a feeling of superiority. I recognized this ungracious behavior was inconsistent with whom I wanted to be as person 100% of the time.

 

So being gracious became a rallying cry to help me in my interactions with others. Graciousness is both a way of thinking and a way of being that helps me interact with my fellow human beings in a kinder and more courteous way. Now, when I catch myself being less than gracious, I do the only gracious thing I can think of doing:  I apologize … immediately!

 

Being gracious throughout the day helps me sleep better at night.

 

Next Blog Title:  Gumption and Moxie 

Next Blog Date:  July 14, 2011

 

Steve Weber is a Forrest Gump tribute artist, speaker, event maker, blogger, and aspiring author. He uses the simple, yet powerful, truths of Forrest Gump to turn meetings into events. You can learn more at SpeakingGump.com.

 

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Good Decisions with Bad Results … and Vice-Versa

Thursday, July 7th, 2011

 

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Inspiration for today’s post comes from the audio version of Highroads Media’s What Would Napoleon Hill Do?  While my previous blog was about Gumption and Decision-Making, today’s post will contrast the quality of the decisions you make with the results you get from those decisions.

 

I believe the quality of your decision-making process needs to be evaluated separately and differently from the results you’re getting – despite the easily envisioned linkage.

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Gumption and Decision-Making

Tuesday, July 5th, 2011
Forrest's decision-making was instinctive

Forrest's decision-making was instinctive

 

In its simplest form, decision-making is a choice between A or B … and sometimes C.

 

When the decision is trivial or unimportant, we normally just decide A or B using our past experience and/or knowledge. Deciding is not difficult – it’s just instinctive. We know what the correct choice is, and we make it without deliberation.

 

Sometimes we’re uncertain or uninformed about what choice to make. We take time to educate ourselves about the pluses and minuses of A and B. Filled with new information, we then decide. The more important the consequences of the choice, then the more time we spend gathering information before deciding.

 

But often, even in complicated matters, we already know our choice instinctively. The time spent researching isn’t to decide, but rather to justify our already-made choice. We are simply pretending that we haven’t yet decided – we’re seeking confirmation. We try to prove the choice correct prior to publicly committing to it.

 

People with Gumption understand this human tendency and do the following:

 

  1. Make decisions quickly and don’t waste time second-guessing themselves.
  2. Make new decisions if and when previous decisions don’t get the expected results.
  3. Spend only the minimal time necessary on research prior to making a decision (and then they repeat #1 and #2).

 

It seems to me that most decisions are made in the blink of an eye, as Malcolm Gladwell proffered in his best-selling book Blink. Somehow we just know.

 

Recall the war scene in the movie Forrest Gump. Forrest first decides to save himself when attacked. He then decides to go back and save his fellow soldiers. In the blink of an eye Forrest knew what to do. There was no deliberation. There was no second-guessing. He decided and he did it.

 

Do you make decisions quickly?

Do you spend (or waste) time second-guessing your decisions?

Do you have a regular way to conduct research so that your decision-making process is efficient?

 

 

Next Blog Title:  Good Decisions with Bad Results … and Vice-Versa 

Next Blog Date:  July 7, 2011

 

Steve Weber is a Forrest Gump tribute artist, speaker, event maker, blogger, and aspiring author. He uses the simple, yet powerful, truths of Forrest Gump to turn meetings into events. You can learn more at SpeakingGump.com.

 

 

 

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