Archived November, 2010

Cyber Monday – Genuine & Authentic or Contrived?

Monday, November 29th, 2010

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Today is Cyber Monday.

 

How do you feel about it? Are you going to surf the web and check out all of today’s on-line sales? Are you buying the idea that the traditional shopping day of Black Friday now extends to the online world’s Cyber Monday?

 

Typically I’m a late adaptor and not one to jump on the latest trends. Of course in the hyper evolving world of technology, not keeping up can be a dangerous practice. Technology changes right in front of our eyes (or flat screen monitors) and being a late adaptor could leave you with a Radio Shack Tandy 1000 – my first computer.

 

But something about Cyber Monday strikes me as overly contrived – not genuine, not authentic.

 

Cyber Monday was first invented by Shop.org during the 2005 holiday season. comScore has reported increasing online sales every year since then – but by decreasing percentages. So it apparently has been a retail marketing success, although CNN throws some cold water on the day by calling it mostly myth.

 

Are you going to shop on-line today? Or are you exhausted by all the Cyber Monday sales that are clogging your email in-box today?

 

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Happy Thanksgiving 2010 !

Wednesday, November 24th, 2010

 

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As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the highest appreciation is not to utter words, but to live by them.  ~ John Fitzgerald Kennedy

 

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Being Gracious – Gump Style (part 2)

Monday, November 22nd, 2010

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Do you remember the scene when Forrest meets Jenny in Washington, DC? An incident took place at the meeting room of the Black Panthers. One of the Panthers is busy explaining to Forrest what they stand for, why they are against the war. Forrest is half listening and half watching as Jenny speaks/argues with Wesley, her Berkeley boyfriend.

What happens next is dramatic. Wesley hits Jenny across the face. (It takes place in slow motion.) As Jenny is falling backwards, Forrest steps forward with rage. Wesley turns and looks at Forrest. Forrest tackles Wesley and slams him into a table. Forrest proceeds to punch Wesley several times before Jenny rushes over to pull Forrest off of Wesley.

Forrest, ever the gracious gentleman apologizes to the group as he and Jenny are being escorted to the door, by saying, “Sorry I had a fight in the middle of your Black Panther party.” It’s humorous because the simple Forrest mistakes the Black Panther movement for an actual party – a party where people get together to have a good time. No one seemed to be having a good time.

Forrest’s simple act of graciousness amidst all of the hatred, violence and angry rhetoric swirling around in the chaotic room is stark by comparison and worthy of further examination.

Here are three simple reminders to consider when you’d rather punch someone’s brains out than be gracious.

Have you ever been so mad you wanted to fight? Are you able to calm your emotions and show graciousness even when others behave boorishly?

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The Power of Gratitude – Radio Interview

Friday, November 19th, 2010

 

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I was interviewed on a radio show last week. I’m grateful for the experience. Was it all just a coincidence? Or maybe destiny? Or maybe each of us simply making our own luck?

 

Do you remember the scene in the movie when Momma Gump is on her deathbed? She and Forrest are having a conversation about dying and destiny.

 

Momma:     I didn’t know it, but I was destined to be your momma. I did the best I could.”

Forrest:      You did good, Momma.”

Momma:     “Well, I happen to believe you make your own destiny. You have to do the
best with what God gave you.”

 

You can sense a good deal of gratitude in Momma’s words here and in her attitude throughout the movie. You feel that she always had pride and thankfulness for the life she lived – and was pleased and grateful for her son.

 

“Feeling grateful or appreciative of someone or something in your life actually attracts more of the things that you appreciate and value into your life.” -  Christiane Northrup

 

“Gratitude is not only the greatest of virtues, but the parent of all the others.” -  Cicero

 

I’m grateful that I met Mary Foley and Susie Galvez.

 

Do you believe in luck? Destiny? Being grateful?

 

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Airport waiting area seats with 110V receptacles – A great idea!

Thursday, November 18th, 2010

 

SJC-1Early Monday morning I checked into the San Jose Airport (SJC).

 

I did notice the new full body scanners but they were not yet being used. So I passed through the old-style metal detector and missed the opportunity to get some low level radiation or a groping from TSA – but I digress.

 

After purchasing my cup of coffee and making my way to the gate area, I started the search for an electrical outlet. My computer didn’t have a full charge so I thought I’d find a 110V receptacle and give myself as much work-time on the 2 upcoming flights as I wanted.

 

I circled the building support pillars and scanned the outer walls – no outlets (sigh).  Then, to my amazement I noticed a whole row of seats with 110 electrical receptacles built right into the seat arms. WHOW! What a great idea!

 

SJC has a brand new Terminal B that only opened in June 2010. Clearly this is new terminal was designed with the convenience of the traveling public in mind. Most people have computers or phones that frequently need charging, and now some thoughtful airport designer added this great tool in abundance for our convenience.

 

Not all of the waiting seats have this feature – I’m guessing 20% do. Pretty cool.

 

It seems we only hear negative comments about air travel these days. I like to focus on the positive whenever possible. Seats in airport waiting areas with 110V receptacles is a good thing.

 

Now if we can only get through security to enjoy the waiting area.

 

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Next Blog Title:  The Power of Gratitude – Radio Interview  

Next Blog Date:  November 19, 2010

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Being Gracious – Gump-Style (part 1)

Monday, November 15th, 2010

Being gracious is a worthwhile pursuit!

Being gracious is a worthwhile pursuit!

 

I’m often asked the question, “How has Steve Weber changed as a result of portraying Forrest Gump for the past 14+ years?” The typical short answer has been, ”I don’t think I’ve personally changed.”  I’ve been able to see the world, meet millions of people that I would have never met, have sat and posed for over 3 million photographs, and had a ‘heck-uv-a-lot-uv-fun’ … but I’ve always thought that I personally haven’t really changed.

 

I’ve worked hard at using my natural talents and interests while integrating them into my portrayal of the character. So there’s always been a lot of Steve in the Forrest that I portray.

 

But in the last 2 years, I’ve re-considered that question and my previous answer. I now believe that I’ve identified one very significant and specific example of how the character has changed me for the better. I am now a more gracious person.

 

Gracious comes from the Latin grātiōsus meaning amiable. Today the term is defined as pleasantly kind, courteous, and expressive of goodwill or kindly feelings. Forrest Gump has taught me to be more gracious. Today I am more amiable, patient and kind.

 

So what does this mean? Was I formerly ungracious? unkind? or even arrogant? Let’s take a closer look.

 

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5 Keys to Recognize and Seize a Gumpportunity

Thursday, November 11th, 2010

 

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In my preceding post, gumpportunity was defined as taking advantage of an unexpected or unforeseen opportunity that arises by being in the right place at the right time.

 

Gumpportunities follow these simple patterns:

  1. You are in the right place at the right time.
  2. You’ve done necessary and valuable hard work beforehand.
  3. You have both the wisdom and gumption to grab it and run with it.

 

Today, let’s lay out 5 keys to help you recognize and seize gumpportunties when they appear in front of you – just like when the feather floats out of the sky and lands at the feet of Forrest Gump – and he picks it up!

 

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Gump-portunity

Monday, November 8th, 2010

 

 

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Previously I’ve written about opportunity. When the movie begins, a feather floats out of the sky and lands at the feet of Forrest Gump. The feather can be compared to an opportunity. Opportunities often float into our lives and land at our feet. What did Forrest do? He picked it up. What do you do when opportunities land in your life?

 

Today, we’re going to coin a new word – Gump-portunity or gumpportunity

 

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Be Determinedly Receptive.

Thursday, November 4th, 2010

  

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Continuing my series on the 7 principles of being gumptionable, today we’ll examine principle #3: Be determinedly Receptive.

 

As a reminder, gumptionable is the combination of conventional gumption with Gumption. To be gumptionable is to be 100% personally responsible for your actions and interactions.

 

Receptive is the ability to be interested, non-resistant, and open to others and their ideas. Forrest Gump demonstrated receptiveness throughout his life and it lead to opportunity after opportunity, financial success, personal happiness and peace-of-mind.

 

Determined is synonymous with guts, initiative, backbone, courage, daring and enterprise.

 

Here are 5 ways to be determinedly receptive.

 

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100 & Counting

Monday, November 1st, 2010

 

 

 

This is the 100th blog I’m posting since I started one year ago on November 4, 2009. Yes, I’m pleased and yes, it’s taken a lot of work to stick to the schedule of writing 2 posts per week. Persistence and consistency are probably the 2 attributes of which I’m most proud. Scheduling regular time to write has brought sanity to the process.

 

But here is the real secret, I have a fantastic editor who helps hold me to the schedule (i.e. I committed to her); tells me when I’m attempting to post some crap or fluff; and regularly corrects the idiosyncratic grammar style in which I write. She has elevated my writing with her frequent pointed comments and also taught me how to think about writing from the perspective of the reader, their needs, and their interests. Thank you Jana!

 

While my first blogs are retrospectively somewhat primitive, they gave me the freedom to write and express myself in a medium that I previously never used. The early posts had little to do with what I’m currently writing, but were foundational as my style of writing evolved and developed.

 

In the last 50 to 60+ posts, I’ve started to really find my groove – becoming more focused on teaching good principles, saying what I want to say, and making more forceful arguments. In other words, I’m finding my writer’s voice and taking a stand. It will be interesting to look back from 150 or 250 or 500 to see how my style continues to evolve.

 

So today, to celebrate, I’m giving myself the day off from the ‘new’ creative thinking and writing.

 

Here in no particular order are 10 of my favorite (or most significant) blogs I’ve written and a brief reason why they seem important to me. 

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